The Mother, May I Community
A community for moms who are done asking for permission to be themselves and are commited to restoring their sense of self & sovereignty.
You didn’t lose yourself.
You’ve were taught to put yourself last for the sake of “love”.
This is the space where you are REQUIRED & guided to put yourself first, because when you do, everything else in motherhood (and life) starts to feel easier.
Why “Mother, May I?”
You remember that childhood game.
You had to ask permission for every move...trying to get closer to the “mother”.
This community exists because somewhere along the way, moms were taught to ask for permission to get closer to themselves.
Mother, May I is where you stop asking and start choosing:
your voice
your autonomy
your confidence
your next step
THIS is your permission slip to move closer to YOU!
If this feels right...
You Might Be Here Because…
You love your kids and miss yourself.
You second-guess every decision, even the small ones.
You’re tired of being told to “just take a bath” about burnout.
You feel disconnected from your confidence, intuition, or voice.
You’re functioning… but barely feeling like you.
And you’re low-key wondering when motherhood became synonymous with self-abandonment.
(Yeah. Same.)
What Mother May I Actually Is
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A facilitated community (not chaos, not awkward networking)
Grounded in nervous-system safety, self-trust, and identity through conversation, activities, and easy-to-use resources.
Designed to work with the realities of moms instead of against them.
A place to come back to yourself; without fixing or forcing.
Intentional gatherings & conversations
A place to get tools to rebuild self-trust and confidence
A space where you don’t have to perform “good mom energy”
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A support group where you are forced to participate/share.
A pep-talk-fueled positivity cult
Therapy (but it is therapeutic)
A place where you have to prove you’re burnt out “enough”
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Depending on which option you chose, you are either;
A. Three Month Member - with access to all meet-ups (6) for a 3 month period. Full access to the community hub for a full year, PLUS discounts on future events, retreats, services, etc.
B. Monthly Member - with access to the monthly meet-ups (2) and community hub access while monthly membership is active.C. Drop-In Visitor - with access to ONE meet-up and temporary access to the community hub for one month.
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We meet twice a month at:
The Nest Wellness Collective
32270 Telegraph Rd # 120, Bingham Farms, MI 48025
Wish there was a meet-up location closer to you?
Want to bring the Mother May I community into your space/building?
DM me on Instagram @firstme_thenmom and let’s get that ball rolling!
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Yes! You can find the Meet-Up Recaps uploaded within 24 hours of our session.
I will also be adding weekly micro-shift activities and downloadable resources for you to stay consistent with your self-connection outside of meet-ups.
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Of course! Memberships are flexible and can be canceled at any time from your account. You’ll retain access through the end of your current billing cycle.
Before fully committing to becoming a member, try dropping in for only $44.00!
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You can reach us anytime via the following channels:
Email: allie@firstchairlifecoaching.comDM me on IG: @firstme_thenmom
Become a Mother May I Member
Just curious? Want to check out 1 of the meet-ups before fully committing to becoming a full member? Perfect! Join us!
As a monthly member, you get access to the monthly meet-ups (2) and full access to the community hub while your membership is active.
The 3-month membership includes six meetups, for those who want more than a 1 time experience. Committing to multiple gatherings supports consistency and intention; both of which are essential for real, lasting change. When you show up repeatedly, the work deepens, trust builds, and insights have time to integrate. By investing in three months, you’re not just receiving perks, you’re making a meaningful commitment to your future self and the version of you you’re intentionally becoming.
Join Our Next Meet-Up
Saturday, March 7th 2026
10:00am-11:30am
Topic | Permission To Be Yourself -
Donuts, Coffee & Fruit Provided!